I was asking.
Is "I am attracting the perfect partner" (positively, etc.) good enough, or is it also needed to add all the factors and details? If you affirm for the best partner, then the factors/details wouldn't need to be specified in the affirmation. i.e. "...who enjoys the same films and music as I; likes going out and doing this; enjoys that; has interests in this; accepts my ideosyncracies in that; doesn't mind me wanting to do this in this way or that way..." Should the affirmation also include you being the perfect partner for them, as well, or would that be a given?
Before, I was told too many things confuse the energies - and it's prudent to be specific and to-the-point; I might over-think that and specify too much...so is "the perfect partner for me in a positive way [etc.]" good enough?
Oh I see.
Well, I don't think that so. Any details are needed, but I still wonder about the perfect part.
I mean, you'll attract the perfect partner let's say, but what's next? What if they are TOO perfect for you?
The same goes for the best.
I'm just thinking, I could be wrong on that tho.
If you attract a partner for yourself, it is not needed to say you'll be perfect/best/etc for hem, because you are attracting a partner for yourself only.
Yeah, that's true, too much words confuse the energies.
I didn't mean to turn your thread into a guessing thread. My apologies.
As for "perfect" and "best" - IMO, there are different perfects and bests, depending on different things. It can also be arbitrary/whimsical/subjective.
I love how FancyMancy writes so detailed and intricately that many people just get lost
Lol. At least it got a laugh out of it!
"In a positive and healthy manner I am attracting the most suitable partner for me in every way, into my life, permanently"
"In a positive and healthy manner, I am being united with my perfect mate, permanently"
Just some ideas, do which feels best for you.
I know a fellow SS who did a Venus square, and it took exactly one year for it to manifest. Another did a working with foundation/energy/affirmation (no vibrations) and it manifested in one month (but relationship wasn't the best and only lasted 1/2 year).
It all depends on transits too.
Excellent. Lydia for...erm...who did I say was President/PM last time? What post do you want, Lydia? Whatever it may be - Lydia for that! xD
I still love you, johnson_akemi!
stares at you blankly; blinks
And yes... This isn't the first time I got confused by Fancy xD
Do you want to go out for a cup of coffee/tea/hot chocolate?
Note HPS Maxine's latest protection affirmation
. It's quite detailed because we want the energy to work properly in the way we mean it. "In every way" leaves the energy to "choose" on it's on. Someone's energy may not be enough - and I think magic on others is not for this - to "shape" the person into your ideal partner but if you specify your needs clearly it may come into accordance. "Good in every way" how? The partner can be good at poetry, computing, fixing your car or whatever, and maybe even good at sex but he/she might not be very fond in having sex as often as you like or he/she is too sexualy active for you. I don't see the problem in the standard affirmation, but it's fine to add more details to the "good in every way" thing, if your instincts tell you so.
OK... Now that you've said that, I'll ask this (CLEARLY! (?) PMSL) -
Instead of saying, "I am attracting a partner for me who is
and enjoys doing
which would (might?) bog-down the energies...might the following be a better idea? -
You have your own Black Book (or maybe more than one Black Book which are used for different things). In the Black Book, you detail the general or specific things you want in a partner, then use an affirmation in which you state "in accordance with" the Black Book...
In your own personal Affirmations and Workings Black Book (for example)
- [cool and funky title]
- [mini-story or profile of the most excellent partner that is wanted]
- [details of the babe]
"...in full accordance with the descriptions in my [cool and funky title] story, I am attracting a partner..." Yes? No?
- My Wanted [Sexual/Companion/Whatever] Partner
This details a partner I wish to be in love/lust/companionship/whatever with.
- [S/he] is a fun-loving, silly, and playful blonde-haired, blue-eyed [guy/girl] open to new experiences and is always willing!
- S/he is a hard worker and never slackens; s/he is very dilligent and systematic in [his/her] goals and stops at nothing to achieve them. S/he challenges me to push mself harder, safely, and try and be better than [him/her] in every way I can. S/he...
"...in a safe and positive way for me, I am attracting a partner who is in full accordance with my My Wanted Sexual/Companion/Whatever] Partner, on page 10 of my Affirmations and Workings Black Book..."Would that work?!?!
You've detailed it on paper, in your protected (and empowered?) specific Black Book (or perhaps the same Black Book, if you have ones which you use for different things), which is/are wrapped in silk and kept in a safe draw (for example), and because you have done it in there, you can use a shorter affirmation and repeat it a power-number of times, with whichever Rune/s you want to use, yes? Another working for something else could be, "As per article 15 on page 23 of my Affirmations and Workings Black Book, [such-and-such]..."
The jew has empowered a bible and koran with dirty energy, so I think it would be a great thing to do ourselves. As such, whn leaving anti-tracts around, it might be very wise to empower them for a while before leaving them in areas.