Yule Gift To Yourself
We are all living in a society that is built upon being outer directed and dictated. As a result people have a self image and self regard created for them by others many times toxic others. Just turn on media its made by people who hate you for not being joozish. This is why people are so miserable so much of the time. Its all so fickle, beaten over the head with a jar of kosher pickles. Don't focus on what imperfect others imprinted into your being but actually look into your own being as it is, without judgement. There in that quiet place all truth will be revealed.
A major part of the spiritualized inward journey is to become inner directed, to discover your own actual being which is soul, and your own value which is unique and eternal, and to actualize this into the world with living your inner beauty. All the love and care of the universe is inside That is were happiness is. You have this gem within you all the time just grasp it, clean all the dirt off and let it shine for all eternity.
Eternity is what we all are.